You probably get tired of reading my posts like this but I was thinking the other day how selfish it would be for me to bring a child into this world. Why bring my child into a world where they will be hated for their appearance? Why should my children have to work 10X harder to prove themselves to society, to meticulously monitor their every move, their every word , to find every way around a stereotype only to fall right back into that mold, because that’s where people want you to stay. They will be judged constantly…it isn’t fair.
I have always wanted children, I love kids and I am a generally optimistic (I actually am), but thinking realistically our world will never change. .. won’t I just be torturing them?
“… or maybe I’m just being too cynical”